“Spare” is the memoir of Prince Harry, Duke of Sussex, published in January 2023. The book provides an intimate and candid look at his life, experiences, and the challenges he faced as a member of the British Royal family. Here’s a review of the book.

Overview:
“Spare” delves into Prince Harry’s life from his childhood, the trauma of losing his mother, Princess Diana, to his experiences in the military, his marriage to Meghan Markle, and the couple’s decision to step back from royal duties. The title itself, “Spare,” refers to Harry’s position as the younger son of Prince Charles, often seen as the “spare” to the heir, which he explores throughout the narrative.

Themes:
1. Identity and Belonging: Harry grapples with his identity within the royal family and the public eye. He reflects on the pressures of being a royal and the feeling of being an outsider.

2. Grief and Loss: The impact of his mother’s death is a recurring theme, shaping his life choices and emotional landscape. Harry discusses how this loss influenced his mental health and relationships.

3. Mental Health: The memoir is notable for its candid discussion of mental health struggles, including anxiety and depression. Harry emphasises the importance of seeking help and breaking the stigma surrounding mental health issues.

4. Love and Family: Harry shares his deep love for his wife, Meghan, and their family, contrasting it with the challenges they faced from the media and royal family dynamics.

5. Media Intrusion: The book addresses the media’s relentless scrutiny and its impact on his life, particularly regarding his relationship with Meghan and their decision to step back from royal duties.

Strengths:
– Honesty and Vulnerability: Harry’s willingness to share personal stories and emotions makes the memoir relatable and engaging. His openness about mental health is particularly impactful.

– Insight into Royal Life: The book provides a unique perspective on the inner workings of the royal family, shedding light on traditions, expectations, and the challenges of royal life.

– Narrative Style: Harry’s storytelling is compelling, blending humor, poignancy, and reflection, which keeps readers engaged throughout.

I enjoyed this read very much.

Onto the next book…